Mary, Martha, and Marthy: The Mythical Middle Sister's Hack to a Biblical and Balanced Life
Hey there, fellow poopers and prayers! 💩🙏
Have you ever felt torn in the all-too-familiar struggle between being productive and being in the moment? Keep reading to learn more including how to get your very own FREE Marthy’s Wonder Wheel and Journey Journal printable designed to help you find balance in your life.
The Tale of Two Sisters (and a Third?) 👭
Many of us have heard the classic Bible story of Mary and Martha which I used to see as a simple tale of two sisters— Mary (the original fangirl, sitting at Jesus’ feet✨) and Martha (our kitchen queen, always bustling about, making sure everyone is fed and comfy – essentially the OG Martha Stewart 🧁).
But after digging deeper, I realized it’s more than that both Mary and Martha were beloved disciples, and this story isn’t about competition — it’s about Jesus calling each to a deeper faith and purpose. This got me thinking: What if there was a third sister? A mythical figure who was the perfect balance between both qualities? A sister who could both sit at Jesus' feet and prepare a feast? Allow me to introduce... Marthy! 🎉
How to Channel Your Inner Marthy 🧘♀️
Now, before you start flipping through your Bibles searching for her, let me break it to you gently—Marthy’s as real as a clean house with toddlers. She’s the sister that never gets mentioned because, let’s be honest, she’s too good to be true!
But here’s the thing—aren’t we all trying to be a bit "Marthy" in our daily lives? Trying to have quiet time while folding laundry and prepping a potluck dish for church? (Spoiler: It usually ends with a burnt casserole and a Bible covered in laundry detergent.) 😂
Practical Steps Toward Balance
So, how do we channel our inner “Marthy” and find that sweet spot between rest and productivity (without all the unrealistic expectations)? Here are some ideas to get you started:
Listen for God’s Voice 🎧
Even in the midst of to-do lists, chaos, and kids’ arguments, take a moment to hear Him. Pooping and praying, anyone? 😉😃Set Realistic Goals 📋
Instead of trying to tackle a Mount Everest-sized to-do list, try to focus on completing a few key tasks each day. After all, don’t superheroes have to start their day with a cup of coffee and a plan? 😉Prioritize Self-Care ☕
Schedule small breaks for yourself— a short walk, a cup of tea, or even just a few minutes of quiet. You’ll find you’re better able to tackle anything else after a quick “power up!” 💪Create a Flexible Routine 🕒
We might not know what is coming but we know something is coming, right? 😛 Budgeting in some “expecting the unexpected” time can help you stay on schedule while reducing the overwhelm. ✔️Celebrate Small Wins 🎉
Acknowledge and celebrate your accomplishments, no matter how small. Did you finally finish that load of laundry? Throw yourself a mini dance party! (Just don’t invite the pile of unmatched socks… they’re terrible dancers! 🧦😂)!Embrace Imperfection 🧁
Let go of the need for everything to be perfect! Sometimes, “good enough” is all you need to keep moving forward. Even a cake that looks like a science experiment is still a delicious dessert. 🎂😋Connect with Others 🤗
Share your struggles and successes with friends, and family, or even simply write them down in a journal. Getting those thoughts and feelings out can help provide clarity and peace of mind. 🤍🍃✨️Reflect and Adjust 📝
At the end of each week, take a moment to reflect on what worked and what didn’t. Do you need to tone down your “inner Martha” or kick your “inner Mary” into gear? ⚖️Remember Jesus Love You 💜
Whether you're more Mary, Martha, or a “hot mess express” (because who isn’t? 😉) at the end of the day, Jesus came to save us all and that is what really matters. 💗🙌
Get Your FREE Printable to Find Balance!
To help you channel your inner Marthy, I’ve created a fun, practical tool: the Marthy Wonder Wheel and Journey Journal printable! 🎨✨
The Marthy Wonder Wheel helps you reflect on how balanced your life is between Mary (reflective, spiritual) and Martha (active, service-oriented) qualities.
The Journey Journal gives you space to set goals, track your progress, and invite God into every area of your life.
Mission Marthy
(🚀🎶to the theme of Mission Impossible 🚀🎶)
So, my dear poop-and-pray pals, who’s with me on this Marthy mission? Let’s embrace the beautiful, messy middle ground between sitting at Jesus’ feet and keeping our to-do lists from becoming to-do notebooks. We’re all in this together—one prayer and one flush at a time! 💩🙏
P.S. If you happen to find Marthy, let a sister know, will ya? 😉 Also don’t forget to grab your “FREE Marthy Wonder Wheel and Journey Journal!”
P.P.S. Feel free to share your own “Marthy” moments in the comments below. I’d love to hear how you find the balance! 💗